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Unstable Narcissists Cannot Introspect Because of Shame



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  1. Hello from Penrose Colorado.When you hear about someone going to a temple in the mountains To work on themselves ( like a monk) are they working on their own narcissism?I was thinking about Cat Stevens when I asked this.He gave up everything to go work on himself.

  2. Thank you for answering my question David. Yes, I understand that I now have to have self compassion and he needs to get help. Nevertheless, he is out of my life and I am free. Many thanks again for everything you do 🧿

  3. Hi David, why do they talk so much! I say they, I can't really put a name to the disorder, bpd maybe, but, forever on the phone talking to work, arranging, making decisions for who's doing what! On the other hand ,I'm tired just listening I get overwhelmed and want to with draw

  4. Thanks for touching on my comment at 20:38mins. I do have to laugh looking back at all the major red flags of her. What was I thinking. You're 100% correct it's about how it makes us feel when around these types of people. The day I finally decided to walk away was the day she yet again stormed off as I didn't hold her hand in a shop, her whole attitude just made me feel uncomfortable including making me feel uncomfortable in my own home and that's a major no no, and even now after a few weeks of having not seen her I still feel all icky from it. She was so arrogant, highly opinionated and acted like she knew more than everyone else including doctors, highly critical, hated the world and how it wasn't fair and of course all her exes were narcs including her own mother etc. I just walked away as there is no point talking and explaining to people like that. Of course I will be described as a narc or something but in reality I saw the warning signs and ran for the hills. God help the next victim. You're so right when you say about never mind her actions after 2 weeks or so, imagine how awful it would be after two years.

  5. 27:10 the compassion is vital.
    Compassion and sympathy are 2 very different things.
    It’s often those who appeal to sympathy yet show none for others in the same situation who are the cluster b’s🐝
    There are many people with cluster b traits or even disorders who don’t hurt others. It’s often those who demand sympathy who don’t understand compassion.

  6. The fact that you say “if I missed your question I’m sorry.” Not a single person that MANY of us have been in a relationship with can even say that. You helped me understand = faster healing. Thank you for being you. This is complex and traumatic. Thanks for sharing your personal story. You don’t need the paperwork to understand it. You need empathy and personal experiences to understand what happened and to be able to genuinely help others. You are healing THOUSANDS of people!!! Thanks David! I appreciate you brother!

    Jess P St Peters MO

  7. from south africa

    How can I accept that my mom cares more about my dad's image and allowing him to abuse me that my life?

    How do I stop people from arguing with me in my head? I have tried everything, and it doesn't work.

  8. Hello, David! Ohio here! Sorry you had computer troubles! So glad I don’t own one! Thank you for another great Q&A Monday! Happy you’re getting lots more questions! I always learn from them! Have a great night! 😎❤️

  9. Hi from Sacramento. When people step up to the acknowledgment plate of acceptance to their own dysfunction and take that next step of healing you just empowered yourself. You know that you didn’t damage yourself and everyone knows it takes time to reverse that damage, what wonderful thing you just did for yourself. Great things are coming your way such as freedom from all that toxic hurt you were put through. It’s important to understand that the person who helped traumatized you is a hurt individual that you had nothing to do with so letting go of anger towards that person is important in healing journey. The feeling of empowerment is such a wonderful feeling. I have good days and bad days, moving forward every day with small steps and we’re gona there 👍👍🥰🤗😁

  10. Victoria from the bay area , have you heard of Cocoa the gorilla that was Taught sign language She was given a kitten and after a while she started to teach the kitten sign language very interesting.
    documentary She was able to tell the lady how her babies were killed by hunters.We could learn so much from her.Unfortunately , sheit's the way Do you have an opinion on this experiment

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