False Abuse Allegations: Why Narcissists and Borderlines Like Amber Heard Are Such Convincing Liars
*Why Are Narcissists and Borderlines Like Amber Heard Such Convincing Liars? Understanding False Abuse Allegations in Family Court*
In this video, I explore the psychology behind why individuals with narcissistic and borderline personality traits—like Amber Heard—are such convincing liars, especially when it comes to false abuse allegations. These individuals have a unique ability to manipulate others, including friends, family, and even mental health professionals. It’s crucial for male victims of false abuse accusations to understand how these tactics work to protect themselves emotionally and legally.
Drawing from real-life examples, including the Johnny Depp and Amber Heard trial, I break down the motivations behind these false claims. Whether it’s revenge, manipulation in custody battles, or simply maintaining control, narcissists and borderlines weaponize deceit in ways that can devastate their targets. This video provides essential insights into how to recognize and counter these tactics.
If you’re a man who’s been falsely accused, or if you’re supporting someone going through it, this video will give you the tools to better understand the dynamics at play. Knowledge is power, and understanding the behaviors of high-conflict personalities can make all the difference in surviving and fighting back.
*Read the article this video is adapted from here:*
*Counseling, Consulting and Coaching with Dr. Tara J. Palmatier, PsyD*
I provide help for men in relationships with abusive women. Since 2009, I’ve specialized in helping abused men end toxic relationships, cope with the stress of ongoing abuse, high-conflict divorce, parallel parenting skills and heal from the subsequent trauma. I combine practical advice, emotional support and goal-oriented outcomes. If you’d like to work with me, please visit the Schedule a Session page or you can email me directly at shrink4men@protonmail.com or shrink4men@gmail.com.
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It is like you are speaking directly to me.
Experienced family law attorney here. I have seen hundreds of domestic violence cases. A large majority of the domestic violence claims are without merit. The courts are overloaded with bogus cases. I tell men to avoid women who create drama or show violent tendencies or have filed protection from abuse cases against their former partner, former husband, or baby daddy. Most experienced family court judges can see through the bogus claims, however sometimes the false accuser is a really good liar or the alleged abuser does something stupid (like sending a threatening text to the alleged victim) to fuel the conflict. Best to stay far away from high conflict individuals. If you get a whiff of abusive behavior or find out your new girlfriend has filed a protection from abuse petition that was dismissed, walk away from her. It will not end well for you.
The War against men ……… includes the police and authorities
Ireland Police and State authorites are totally rotten and corrupt
They think the world is against them, so they see their hateful behavior as self defense.
Rings bells about my ex. I knew nothing about this stuff. "Crazy" is under the skin.
I wouldn't consider myself a cluster B until after the abuse. Now in reactive abuse, I have many of those traits… rightfully so. Battle daily to forgive and not ruminate and try to protect myself from years of the smear and all the injustice that these types can create. Even sticking up for myself in the comment looks textbook cluster B until you look at the entire situation. A bit triggering especially as these nasty type people laugh and smile in your face and for the most part you don't see them behave as you stated. More so in those who are in trauma and isolated and pissed off even looking further like a dark triad. Talk about injustice. Funny that they actually take advantage of the fact you don't see yourself as a victim in the relationship or before you meet them that is exactly why they target you and can easily take advantage as you give them the benefit of the doubt. I always say if possible stay out of reactiveness and stay in integrity and remember you can have a private life and that is different than feeling anxious for exposure of anything as the first thing they exploit are your privacies. Basic constitutional freedoms rights and liberties?
Is there crossover between these disorders and autism/ADHD?
They learn to lie convincingly to escape accountability for their decisions. Not to mention, it is always beneficial to the narcissist to get the courts to back them up because they do it blindly with little to no investigation into the allegations.
She got caught embezzling the company 400k,she told me wanting me to take the blame.now she fears exposure at new job.lies are so in depth.
There where no consequences though had to pay back the money.
This was not the first time
Spot on! Thank you
If men wore body cams more women would be charged with assault and battery.
My ex wife has a narcissistic BPD, she indulged in false allegations, parental alienation, orchestrated a whole army of supporters, professional and social in her war through the 2 journeys in the horror that is family court.
Yup, I encountered all of the false allegations, battles, struggles – and there was nothing, no proof, no nothing. But the disgusting corrupt system doesn't care about holding false accusations to account or the long term outcomes fro children.
I have been left financially ruined permanently, have had years of the stress response, living awash in cortisol, PTSD, emotional damage. And for what? no-one has one, a psychologically damaged child, now adult – who wants nothing to do with either parent. My ex is alone, has never had a successful relationship and is in a dead end job, but of course, woe is me and everything is someone elses fault.
I was in therapy during covid and i had mentioned my sisters lifelong difficult behaviors.
When i mentioned the insane lies she told about me about terrible things i never did, she looked up from her notes and said, thats highly indicative of bpd.
My sister and mother both meet the criteria for bpd.
My brother ranks high for npd.
My dad and i meet no criteria for any personality disorders.
I assure you all, he and i both suffered quite a bit of abuse.
They are the best liars on the planet.
My sisters son began showing the traits in 2nd grade.
He was a natural born actor and liar.
All of his teachers commented about that.
What is cluster b provocation?
Tara, what’s your thoughts on the impact of heavy Social Media use by middle aged women in regards as serving a perfect environment to magnify or possible bring forth cluster b behaviors? Particularly high trait narcissism and BPD?
I have been married for 27 years and saw a startling transformation of my wife (currently 55) starting back around 2015-2016. She has always been a very emotionally immature woman, but it usually wasn’t a big problem. Until now……. Oh shit it’s a big problem now and for about 8-9 years…
Starting in 2016, I became a target of emotional abuse of which I had never before seen. There had been an occasional comments or low grade childishness before, but it was usually low grade and not frequent. The escalation in a fairly short time period was what startled me the most. Oh should I mention that’s also about the time I became very ill and became disabled, putting her in the position of Sole Breadwinner…. I think THAT likely has been the biggest influence on her change though.
Of course there is so many other factors at play in anyones particular situation and beyond the scope of the comments. However, I am very curious on what your opinion is on the degree of power/influence that Social Media is having on older married women. Particularly the ones like Instagram which for women I think is the worse thing ever invented.
I have looked around but can’t find much data on this. I believe as the years roll on this effect, whatever it may be, will reveal itself more and more overtime. I can’t imagine that studying the effects of SM alone are going to easy, but instead very difficult to isolate and control for over population studies. Oh well, what’s your take on this? Cheers
Thank you.
So important to learn how to weed "her" out early in a courtship process.
Nothing beats experience since the men that went thru this can associate tremendous amount of stress and pain to a woman they thought loved them back. When I see early red flags, I can walk away because 1. she's still a complete stranger to me since I barely know her. 2. I know that her possible end game is life destroying, and I have enough self-love to not put myself thru that end game again. 3. There are plenty of single women to date, you must have an abundance mentality so not to latch on to the first pretty girl if she starts showing you attention. 4. Take your time, give it a least 3 months of dating to begin the decision process if you want it to continue or not. I got the art of courtship down to spotting "her" within minutes now…
Just remember, a pretty face doesn't always mean a pretty heart.
This video is extremely important! Thank you!
I was watching you bring wisdom and guidance throughout my ordeal with exactly what you describe here
I’m very inspired now to tell men in your community to just hang in there
I lost my son at 13 and his sister ( my stepdaughter from my accuser and abusers former marriage ) at age 17
My son returned to me at age 16 and slowly loosened the grip of his damaging “ mother”
My step daughter now says at age 21 that she loves me and calls me dad again
Be patient men
My kids both blocked their “ mother” from their phones and lives
Both are healing
And though I’ve fought tenaciously and focused only on them and so have lost everything else described in the video
Love and restoration of trust of two beautiful young souls who want nothing more than to love and be loved
Hang in there brothers and be a warrior for love
I was falsely accused and as a man you're guilty til proven innocent. Eventually truth prevailed but it destroyed my trust in the police and legal system. It's a dual legal system. I also know 5 (!!) other guys who have gone through this. It's very common. A plague. If you're a man DON'T talk to the police! They are not neutral and certainly not on your side. Get an attorney! I had a great attorney and she said this happens all the time. The worst are the social authorities who always believe the women first and often side with her.
The women typically can falsely accuse without consequences. They should be held accountable and there should be a "false allegation registry". Johnny Depp did a great service to bring attention to this problem.